10/24/2004

Eventful weekend..

Feeling so full now, just came back from Xueling's place. She invited us and her korean friends over for dinner..there was soooo much food!! And every dish was so delicious..so here i am now..so so full..At first, we called a cab to get home cos it was too dark to walk home..then when our korean friends knew we wanted to go home, they offered to give us a lift...but we already called for the cab..But they said its ok..just ignore it hahaha..and when we were just getting into Yuna's car, we saw the cab waiting at the road outside the house! hehehe..hope he will just leave and wont cause any trouble for Xueling, cos we used her house phone to call..hopefully they dont have a system to keep records for the numbers that have called...

Before the sumptuous dinner, kavi and i went to Glendale to catch - Shall We Dance? by Richard Gere and J.Lo..It was quite a light hearted movie, about ball room dancing..and after the show, both us felt like dancing hahaha...And we had subway for lunch!! We didnt spend much for this outing cos thanks to kavi's movie passes...and i had this coupon for the subway..haha and i was saying it will be nice if we had a complimentary bus ride or something...

And yesterday, we went shopping at Charlestown!! Didnt buy any clothings this time..instead i bought 2 rings and a bracelet!! Theres this pink ring which Kavi thoughtfully passed to me when she was looking at the rings..it is so pretttyyyy, i liked it so much and bought it right away.... Kavi, thanks for looking out for mi!! *hugz* Wanted to get a belt too..but they didnt have the length i wanted..nvm..shall go back singapore and search!! Far East here i commmmeee..
Then Xueling stayed over cos it was raining when she wanted to go home..so we said she shld just stay over at our place...It was good..girly thing again..and three of us watched The Terminal after dinner..

Overall, i had heaps of fun going out man..on a more serious note, i had some unpleasant encounters too..I guess it all boils down to me being too sensitive on the way the other party speaks either on the phone or on msn..I realised i care too much about words..and there are times where i just interpret wrongly what the other party has intended to put across intitially...Then again, they could always be put across in a way where it shouldnt be that ambiguous that leaves the receiver to expand their interpretation in any way!!! Well, everyone has their own way of expressing themselves..it just depends on how well we know the person..and how accomodating or understanding we want to be towards the people around us. Sighz..phone calls with my bf havnt been very pleasant lately..i was offended with some of the words he had used..both of us had our own explanations, stand and reason for the way we spoke to each other day. It is difficult to come to a point where we both can agree to things when we have different views about the magnitude of the problem...Or rather, to me, i view certain things which he thinks otherwise to be taken seriously..
Oh well..blame it partially on the distance? Perhaps..

Shant think about it anymore..it has already passed..I have learnt to not take certain things too seriously..life is too short to contemplate on the unhappiness...Sometimes, they are better off be just left aside to be forgotten as time passes..But then huh, there are times where i just cant help it lah..cos the problem is just too annoying or big that i cant ignore it..have to sit down and think/cry/complain..C'est la Vie!!




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