Was in the midst of my assignment when i had the urge to blog..Jeff just called before going to bed..

The times spent together for the past few days were just so surreal..what with the mess for the past 2 weeks and the total change of feeling after that..I dont want to go through that mental torture again and more importantly dont wish to be hurt again..
However, i can say i am smiling again.. :)

Was browsing through BRIDES at Times just now and there was a line that caught my eye, from my vague impression, it said something like 'duration of your relationship could be important as well in deciding to tie the knot as the longer you are with that person, the more the true personality of the person will show through'
Hm, i totally agree with that line man..and to me, it applies to friendships as well..

The longer you know a friend, the more you know abt him / her..with the times spent together, the more opportunities to see how your friend behaves in different occasions and how he/she handles issues that come along..

I wonder how others handle it when you realise that the friend that you thought will be by your side never did and puts you down in front of others? How to come to terms that the friend that will be nice to you isnt that nice afterall?

Do we then lower our expectations of these friends and then draw ourselves a little further away from them? Or do we just play along and be fake about it and pretend everything is still cool? Or bring up the issue directly and risk the possibility of losing the friendship?

Hah..decisions.. personally, i hate fakeness..and i treat my friends the way i want to be treated..

Just dont take my easy going-ness for granted and be more sensitive of my feelings.. =)