Had been battling with the idea of blogging my opinions on an issue..And decided to do it after how mp had said ' its your blog wat'.
As i was thinking of how i should start this entry, another reason to why im feeling uncomfortable about this issue could be my lack of self confidence. Apart from being sensitive and a little possessive, it could also be the phobia of history repeating itself.
Oh well, i am feeling uncomfortable of how some other party is too chummy with my guy ( note 'my guy') :p..for my comfort.
How not to raise my brow when that person calls and asks quite often for opinions/laments/complains on issues with answers which is quite clear should be given by her own guy or girlies?
How not to question the limit of 'working partners' when that party is openly pulling practical jokes just on him in a social gathering?
Yes there are gals and guys out there which are pretty magnanimous and find it totally acceptable. Sorry am not one of them.
TO ME, being in a relationship means you behave and watch not to be too chummy with the other sexes because you respect your partner. And you also respect the partners of others.
Well, in the midst of typing this, i can conclude that party is obviously not minding the extra attention she is stealing from someone's (that someone happens to be me) bf.
As for the bf, he has voiced that, that party has always been like this and has categorized it as ' bo liaoz'. I wonder if he will still be in the comfort zone when his gal's 'working partner' is as friendly as his.
We will just wait and see.
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