Is he the one, or not?

I once asked my married colleague, how do you that your husband is the one for you? Her reply - 'Frankly speaking, it is not easy to know he is the one or not lah..its just a gamble'

Another colleague who has an almost decade old relationship says " I don't believe in this now, esp in our times now.."

I so agree with the both of them..

Two can be happy together now, and later before you know it, you are weeping over a broken relationship..

How to trust again when trust has been broken? How to keep the bad memories at bay when things around you are not helping the situation?

How do we know the partners we have now are the ones suitable for us?

What if as time goes by, differences start to emerge and the right way is to let go..but our heart just can't bear the pain..How will the relationship turn out to be?

What if one has already tried to give but still feel unhappy? Is there such a thing as getting used to?

Sighz..i guess everyone has their own way of answering those questions...I wished I could answer them myself..